If you were a teenager again?

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If I were to go back to my teen years I think I would do this. 
I'm learning to be grateful for everything that happened in the past even though if it could be repeated I chose not to meet you 
I want to learn to be a human being who is more responsible for what I want to choose to minimize regrets in the future 
I want to try my best for my education and my future finances 
I want stay on my initial stance focused on the lesson

don't want to focus on other people 

Never try to believe and easily fall in love because it's tiring

Become a more assertive person and wanna wait for the guy who is as sincere to me like my father's. 

I think you also think the same as me why do we look after someone who is not our soul mate? It's just a waste of time, thought and energy 
However, your thoughts, energy and time should be used for more useful activities.

When i was in Senior High School, i wonder why Allah Swt mempertemukan when we were still teenagers.Why did I meet him when I was still a teenager, still not understanding many things, if I met him when he was an adult, when he had the same vision and mision, it would have been better. Maybe we could be a real soul mate, get to know each other, get married straight away, without a lot of teenage drama. .

Like i said on my notes, i think will good if meet you when the condition is right, when our age mature. Because meeting as teenagers in high school and ending up breaking up is a waste of energy.Also Allah SWT doesn't like it. Dating is not allowed, right?


But, after several years later I found out that Allah SWT brought these people together, each of whom had a purpose. Qadarullah, everything happens according to the will of Allah SWT. People are brought together for a reason, and there must be a good lesson in that. Yes, it could be that we met just for teach us about something.
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Note to myself when i was teenagers: Being self-focused is much more important 
Loving ourselves first is much more important so that in the future we will understand ourselves,
The trauma of our youth can probably be avoided"



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